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They Say, I Say: On With the New (and Why ‘Following Your Passion’ is Terrible Advice)

You know the drill. You're told to "follow your passion," to find that one thing that sets your soul on fire and chase it with reckless abandon. They say it's the key to a fulfilling life. They say it's the secret to effortless success. But here's the thing: they're wrong.

The Problem with 'Passion'

The word "passion" itself has become a bit of a monster. It conjures up images of dramatic pronouncements, overnight successes, and a level of certainty that most of us just don't feel, especially when we're starting out.

The truth is, most people who love their work didn't start with some preordained passion. They cultivated it. They explored, experimented, and honed their skills over time.

Life is More Like Fishing

Think of it this way: life is less about unearthing a hidden passion and more like setting sail on a vast, exciting sea.

  • Exploration is Key: Just like a good fishing trip involves exploring different spots, life is about trying new things. You might be surprised at what piques your interest.
  • Skills Matter: You can cast your line in the most beautiful spot, but without the right skills, you won't catch any fish. Developing your abilities in areas you enjoy is crucial.
  • Enjoy the Journey: Some days you'll reel in a prize catch, and other days you'll come up empty. But the joy is in the journey, in the continuous learning and growth.

The Power of the Notebook

So, how do you ditch the pressure of finding your "passion" and embrace this more exploratory approach? One surprisingly effective method is simple: keep a notebook.

Write down your thoughts, ideas, and experiences. Review it regularly. This constant dialogue with yourself helps you identify patterns, track your progress, and make more informed decisions about where you want to focus your energy.

Meaning in a Meaningless World

But what about the bigger picture? What if, in the grand scheme of things, it's all meaningless anyway?

Well, even if the universe doesn't care about our passions or our work, that doesn't mean we can't. The joy we find in creating, learning, and connecting with others is real. It's in those moments of genuine engagement that we find meaning, regardless of what the cosmos has to say about it.

On With the New

So, let's retire the tired phrase "follow your passion." Instead, let's embrace curiosity, experimentation, and the joy of lifelong learning. Let's explore the vast sea of possibilities, hone our skills, and find fulfillment in the journey itself.

After all, who knows what amazing things we might discover along the way?

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